Buying a house

My girlfriend and I are looking for a house in Apeldoorn/NLD. Not a rental one, but a house we can buy.
However: try to find one which suits your needs is difficult.
Not really difficult but trying to find one which you can pay is more difficult and as a “starter” even almost impossible.
How the hell should I pay €187.500,– K.K. (buyer pays costs) for a house which I like?
We are starters. Both are working. No debts.
I do not want to cut in my expenses for living: eating, drinking, going out, sport, holiday .. Cause if every penny has to go to the bank to redeem the mortgage.. nah..

So I’ve no idea. Maybe waiting for the price to drop or wait for a sugar-daddy or a person who does not like money anymore and wants to give it to me.

Or shall we just stay in our 4-room rental home which is €350,– (girlfriend is correcting me) a month?
Anyone?
Psst if you are THAT sugar-daddy: you can use paypal for this at the left side of the screen. (But I do not think that it is going to happen)

Psst (2) If you have any tips, idea’s .. thanks!